Coping with Loss

The loss of any close friend can be devastating, and pets can be among our closest companions. A pet frequently provides unconditional love, emotional security, and loyalty. Routine activities with an animal companion often provide structure, fun, relaxation, and social contact in our daily lives. The death of a cherished pet can mean the loss of an entire lifestyle as well as a devoted companion. Lack of understanding and support from people around us can make this period even more difficult.

In some instances the death of a pet can be anticipated; the animal may be very old or suffering from an extended illness. Other pet owners may face a sudden loss – the result of an accident or short-term illness. Things that will need to be considered with a gravely ill or seriously injured animal include the pet’s quality of life, emotional and financial cost and when or if euthanasia should be considered. It is best to have contemplated these difficult matters beforehand.

It is important to understand that grief is a personal experience and there are no right or wrong ways to feel it. The most important part of healing is to acknowledge what you are feeling and somehow release it. Don’t be afraid to reach out and talk to your friends or a counselor.  A support group can act as a wonderful resource for consolation and affirmation.

Remember that the grieving process for each individual is as unique as each lost relationship. There is no set pattern or time period for recovery.

The links below are provided to help in dealing with the loss of a beloved pet.